Christian-ish: Part 2
1 Samuel 15:7-9, 20-22; 1 John 5:3-4
SERMON TRANSCRIPT
Man, we just kicked 2026 off with a bang last week. If you were here, we came out swinging. So I hope your toes have recovered from being bruised by Pastor Chris last week. But I hate to tell you, they're probably going to get a little bruised again today. And that's the Lord, not me. So don't know what to tell you. But we are excited for this Christian-ish series. We are just really believing that God has something for all of us in this series as we learn what it looks like to be surrendered fully to God and to walk in His way rather in this Christian-ish kind of sort of way. So I'm excited for that. I do apologize in advance. We did some bedroom rearranging yesterday and had a dust allergy attack. So my breathing's a little rough today. So if I cough, I apologize. Got my water, so hopefully we'll be okay, but just wanted to give you a heads up on that. You know what? Let's pray. Let's pray as we get started. Jesus, we thank you for this time. God, I just pray that you will give me your words, give me air in my lungs. And I just pray that you will bless our time in your word as we seek to be more like your son Jesus in your name.
Have you ever found yourself tempted to kind of finagle the rules a little bit? Maybe the express check out where you're supposed to have ten items or less, but you only have like 11 or 12. It's only two more. No one's going to know. It's fine, right? So you just kind of slide on in there and hope nobody actually counts all your items. Or the onramp, like getting on the freeway, the onramp meter, maybe you take that as a suggestion rather than like a general rule of the road. Or my personal favorite, or maybe I should say struggle, is keeping my library book just a couple extra days past Tuesday because I'm so close to finishing it and I know they're not actually going to charge me until it's like really, really late. So I don't know about you, but I struggle with that one. But these are all silly examples, but you kind of get the idea that we have a way of justifying some of these small things in our lives. I mean, some of us are rule followers by nature, and some of us think rules are just dares in disguise. Right? We just want to see how far we can push the limits.
But when it comes to the Christian life, when it comes to being obedient to God, the small things matter. And so that's our focus today, is that small choices can keep us stuck in the Christian-ish lifestyle. We tell ourselves that we're a good person, we do mostly good things, sure we mess up, but we're human, it happens, but we're mostly good people. And maybe in general you do do the right thing. But you aren't fully surrendered. You're Christian-ish. If you missed last week, we defined Christian-ish as someone who has a half-hearted faith, but wears the label of Christian without truly following Jesus. It's a kind of sort of Christian, an almost Christian, an if it feels good Christian. Pastor Chris last week talked about different signs that you might be Christian-ish. And for many of us, one of those things that we struggle with is the idea of selective obedience. This is one of those things that can be small. It can be a small thing or small choices that add up over time and make us Christian-ish. Maybe we think we'll obey if it's not too hard or if it's not too inconvenient. We'll obey unless we have a better plan or unless God is asking just too much of us. Maybe we'll only obey if we're not in a hurry. Today we're defining selective obedience as the dangerous illusion that doing some of what God commands is enough when it's really disobedience in disguise. The Bible is really clear on obedience and the consequences of disobedience. We're actually going to be in 1 Samuel 15 here in a bit. If you want to turn there, it will be on the screens, but you're welcome to get there.
First, I want to look at the Bible. I want to look at the Bible as a way to give us a sense of what God commands us to do. I want to look at three verses that talk about obedience. We're going to look at some things these verses have in common. The first one is Deuteronomy 5.33. It says, "Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land you will possess." Walk in obedience to all. How many is all? All that the Lord your God has commanded you. Exodus 19.5. "Now if you obey me fully and keep my covenant, then out of all nations you will be my treasured possession." If you obey me fully. Job 36:11, "If they obey and serve Him, Him being God, they will spend the rest of their days in prosperity and their years in contentment." Another translation says, "If they listen and obey, they will be blessed." So two things these verses have in common. One is that God is asking for full obedience. He doesn't want half-heartedness or partial obedience. He wants full. It says, "Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded. Now if you obey me fully and keep my covenant, if they obey and serve Him," full and complete obedience. It matters if we're being fully obedient. The second thing that these verses have in common is that some of God's blessings are conditional. If you look back at the verses, most of them have an implied "if-then." Walk in obedience so that you may live. If you obey me fully, then out of all the nations you will be my treasured possession. If they obey, an implied "then," they will spend the rest of their days in prosperity.
Now please hear me. I am not saying that our salvation is dependent on our obedience or our actions. If you're sitting there thinking, "Is Pastor Lauren telling me I have to earn my salvation?" Absolutely not. That is bad theology. That is not what we're talking about. We're talking about two different things here. The first one is that with God, there are, I guess both of them, unconditional promises and conditional blessings. So unconditional promises, it's this idea that we are saved by grace. We are offered this gift unconditionally. It is only by the perfect work of Jesus on the cross, His death and resurrection, and His offer of salvation that we get to be free, we get to be saved from sin, put on His righteousness, and have eternity with Him. That is His unconditional promise to anyone who chooses to receive that. The conditional blessings are that when we are, out of our love for God, obedient to Him fully and completely, He will often bless that obedience, that faithfulness to Him. There is nothing we can do to earn our salvation. I want to be clear on that. But He does want to bless us. He wants to give good gifts to His kids. So there is unconditional promises and conditional blessings. It's like a parent with a child. I love my kids unconditionally. They may frustrate me, they may disobey me, they may make me mad, but I will love them no matter what. But we also have conditional blessings that if they do their homework and they do their chores, they can have a friend over or get some screen time. Those blessings are conditional based on their behavior. Another little caveat for us this morning is that I'm not talking about the prosperity gospel. This is not me saying that you fully obey, you will get everything you ever dreamed of. You will become rich and successful and have everything your little heart could desire. That is not what we're talking about here. Now the Lord does bless us with material things. That is true. But blessings can also look like being more like Jesus. A blessing could look like experiencing His presence in a more tangible way. His blessing could be being able to look at yourself in the mirror with integrity, knowing that you fully obeyed despite the hard or the circumstance or the situation. So I'm not saying that you will become rich or get to buy the new car or get the house because you fully obeyed.
But the thing is, we see being Christian-ish a lot because we think that the Christian life equals the prosperous life. We think that the Christian life, if we do it right, if we're checking all the boxes and doing all the things, that we can have a prosperous life, the American dream, that God will give us everything life. But the reality is that the Bible calls us to take up our cross daily. The cross is an instrument of torture. That's not exactly the prosperous life I was hoping for. The Bible calls us to die to ourselves and live for Christ. We're called to bear each other's burdens. That's the life that we're called to. Is there blessings in following Jesus? 100%. Do those blessings always come in the package we think they will? Nope. Often not. But that's okay. Because if we want to get out of the Christian-ish lifestyle, we must choose full obedience and understand that some blessings are conditional. Real quick, let's look at it this way. In the Bible, theologians talk about covenant theology. Now the covenant, God made the covenant as his plan to redeem mankind. And so he structured his plan around covenant. So throughout the Bible, we see covenants with Abraham, Moses, David, so on and so on. And a covenant is this divine agreement between God and mankind where ultimately, although we're supposed to keep our end of the deal, ultimately it's God who keeps the end of the deal for both of us. And he did that by putting his son on the cross. But we are now under the new covenant through Jesus. When he came and he died and rose again, we have a new covenant that we are under. And so the unconditional promise, as we said, under this new covenant is that he died and rose again and offers us salvation. But the conditional blessing is that our obedience will allow blessings to flow from God to us.
God saved us by grace and then blesses our full obedience. That's why God doesn't want partial obedience. He wants full and complete surrender. And frankly, there's a lot of partial obedience in the global church, but also specifically in the church in the West. We want the benefits of the Christian life without the sacrifice. We want the blessings without the surrender. We pick and choose what feels good to obey, what we think is right and wrong. And we just leave the rest. We compromise, we justify, we excuse, especially the small stuff. But we still call ourselves followers of Christ. And frankly, it is dangerous. It is dangerous to call yourself a Christ follower and live the Christian-ish life. So now that we've set our groundwork for understanding the importance of obedience, I want to get back to that main idea of that small things can leave us stuck in the Christian-ish lifestyle. Because the thing is, small things and small choices can seem insignificant, but they can have really big consequences.
Today we're going to look at the life of Saul in the Old Testament in a story we find in 1 Samuel 15. Now just to give you some background, Saul was the first king of Israel. And to be fair, he started out genuinely wanting to serve God. He loved God. He was humble. He wanted to obey and do what was right in the eyes of the Lord. But then one step at a time, he started choosing partial obedience. He started choosing his own desires and rationalizing his own sin, eventually leading him to listen to the demonic whispers of the enemy instead of the voice of God. It's a slippery slope. It can be just a slow fade. But if a ship or an airplane is one degree off course, they're going to end up miles away from their intended destination. So even if you think you're doing all the things, but you're one degree off course, you're not going to end up where you want to be. Saul wanted to do things his way. So we're going to look at this interesting and honestly pretty devastating story here in 1 Samuel 15. So just again, some back or some context for us. God told Saul to take his army and to go completely destroy the Amalekite people. The Amalekites were a nation that were just evil. So in God's righteous judgment, he used Saul and the army, the Israelite army, to go and completely destroy them. And he told them to destroy everything, every living thing. Man, woman, livestock, everything. But Saul had other ideas. He obeyed at first, but then he made a small choice. Then we pick up in verse 9. It says, "Saul and his men spared Agag's life. Agag was the king. They spared his life and kept the best of the sheep and goats, the cattle, the fat calves and the lambs, everything in fact that appealed to them. They destroyed only what was worthless or of poor quality.”
Saul had selective obedience. He obeyed to an extent by destroying almost the entire nation, but he kept the king alive. We see the problem with this, right? Keeping the leader of the nation alive is kind of a big deal. And they kept the livestock, which they were able to justify in their minds. Perfectly good livestock. It's food. We can trade it. We can kill it. We can use the skin. We can do whatever we need. Why kill perfectly good livestock? But it wasn't full obedience. God gave a clear command and he chose to listen to the whisper of the enemy instead of the voice of his God. And you know, that same whisper I think a lot of us are familiar with. It's the one that rationalizes and justifies and tells us it won't hurt anybody. It's not that big of a deal. No one's going to know. You deserve it. It's just this once. The whispers, the lies, if we listen to those, even in small things over and over and over again, instead of the voice of our heavenly father, we will continue to choose disobedience.
The problem with disobeying in the small choices repeatedly is that it compounds over time. And so what you allow in the moment often owns you in the future. It could be that the small choice is to have one more drink, eat one more serving of dessert even though you were full a long time ago. Look once, just a peek at that website you know is not a good idea. Read that romance novel that's pretty explicit but you heard the story is really good. Yell at your loved one again because they kind of deserved it. It's one small choice. It may not seem like a big deal but it compounds over time in what you allow in the moment often owns you in the future. So I want to ask us, where are we letting the enemy of our soul whisper into our lives? Where are you letting the enemy, letting Satan tell you these lies and whisper to you so that you are tempted to listen to his voice over the voice of your heavenly father? I encourage you to ask the Holy Spirit to reveal that to you. What areas are not surrendered to him? What things are you not being fully obedient in? And to be honest, it may not even necessarily be a sin issue but maybe you're not being obedient in something that you know God is asking you to do. Maybe you're not taking revenge but you're also not forgiving. Maybe you are trying to spend time in the word, trying to have some, you know, read your Bible or get that verse of the day but it's just a checkbox. You aren't fully surrendered to being with Jesus every day. Maybe you're not maxing out the credit cards but you're getting more and more in debt and not practicing biblical tithing or stewardship. Maybe you're not having an affair but you're getting a little too comfortable with a co-worker or a family friend. It's not full obedience. You're only going part way. It could be whatever area it is for you, it could be different for everyone in this room.
We don't all have the same struggles and honestly we don't necessarily all have the same convictions on non-sin issues but we all know what it's like to justify behavior and choose not to call our sin a sin. We aren't perfect. We're gonna mess up but we do serve a God who is. He already saved us from that sin. He has already put on Christ's righteousness onto us. That is not what is in question here. But we all have struggles. We all have these things that we try to justify and we are called to confess those things to God. I encourage you to also confess them to another person, a Bible believing person, a mentor, a pastor, a friend. We confess to God for forgiveness but we confess to people for healing. So I encourage you to do that but if nothing else confess it to God. He forgives and he restores. Ask him to help you live fully surrendered and fully obedient in that area. See Saul got called out on his disobedience later on in chapter 15. The prophet Samuel came and talked to Saul and called him out on his selective obedience and instead of confessing and asking for forgiveness Saul chose to double down. Let's look at verse 20 through 21. Saul says, "But I did obey the Lord," Saul said. We have different definitions of obedience. "But I did obey the Lord," Saul said. "I went on the mission. The Lord assigned me. I completely destroyed the Amalekites and brought back Agag their king. The soldiers took sheep and cattle from the plunder, the best of what was devoted to God in order to sacrifice them to the Lord your God at Gilgal.”
Saul does several things here. First he minimizes his own disobedience by making it seem like it was part of the plan. I completely destroyed them and I brought back their king. That was the plan all along. Then he passes the blame onto his soldiers saying they were the ones who brought the livestock back. It wasn't my decision. They did it on their own. Then he rationalizes and explains that well they're just going to use it to sacrifice to God. That's a good thing, right? And finally, he distanced himself from God by saying that the sacrifices were to the Lord your God. He doesn't say the Lord my God or our God. He says to the Lord your God talking to Samuel. When we minimize, when we pass blame, make excuses, rationalize, when we do those things it puts a wall between us and God. It puts up a barrier. We distance ourselves from Him because nobody wants to be found out. Nobody wants to be called out for their sin or their selective obedience. So we put some distance between us and God. We say I follow God but He's over there and I'm going to do my thing and we'll be fine. We choose to live in our Christian-ish world where we make the decisions and decide what we will and will not obey. But selective obedience is disobedience even in the small things. And it's going to keep us stuck in the Christian-ish lifestyle. Even if it means you're just one degree off course. It's a problem. And once again, to be abundantly clear, we're not talking about your salvation here. God is freely given by God's grace. But you can experience conditional blessings that come from your obedience. And I would say, although He blesses us for a variety of reasons, if you are not being fully obedient, you are missing out on God's blessings.
1 John 5:3-4 says, "Loving God means keeping His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome. For every child of God defeats this evil world and we achieve this victory through our faith.” He's not asking too much of us. The boundaries that He's given, the commands that He's given us, they are for our good and His glory. And they are not burdensome. They are not too heavy for us to carry. And in fact, when we are obedient, we get to be active participants in defeating the evil in the world. We get to be part of the victory, which is played out through our obedience. So maybe today it's not a sin issue for you. Maybe it is. Maybe that is something you need to confess to the Lord. But maybe the problem isn't the action. The problem is the lack of action. The problem is the partial obedience and whatever it is that God is calling you to do and to obey. And we know that He's asking us to step out in faith in some area. Small, big. I imagine most of us have something that comes to mind. Maybe it's to be more vocal about your spiritual life around your non-believing friends and coworkers. Maybe it's to quit an unhealthy habit or to start a healthy one. Maybe it's simply to be in the Word more consistently, not out of obligation or to check a box, but because you want to spend time with your Heavenly Father so that His voice is louder than all the other whispers. So whatever that thing is for you, are you willing to fully surrender to it, to God? To stop playing this Christian-ish game and start walking in full obedience? So that's my question. That's my one takeaway for you today. Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal where you are choosing selective obedience and then go all in on obeying God fully in that area. He is good to gently and kindly convict and to remind us where we are struggling, to help us see where we need to press into Him, where we aren't being fully obedient, where we're choosing selective obedience. So ask Him, ask Him to reveal that to you. It may not be an audible voice, it probably won't, but He'll tell you, He'll show you and then go all in on choosing full obedience. There is goodness and there is blessing on the other side of our obedience, friends.
Pray with me. Jesus, we thank You for who You are, for Your goodness. We thank You that You make a way for us to be obedient. I just pray that You will reveal to us what it is that we are choosing to be selective obedient to. And God, help us to go all in on that. Help us to go all in on You, that we put our faith in You and that we are able to walk in freedom and victory because we are walking in full obedience. Thank You for who You are, in Your name, Amen.