Summer Playlist: Part 8
SERMON TRANSCRIPT
There are so many songs out there. It is wild to think about how many songs there are. Typically, at least for me, when I want to pick a song on a playlist or when I'm going through the radio, I want something that is uplifting, that makes me feel good, that maybe gives me energy to clean the house, or that we can have a little kitchen dance party too, or gets me out of a funk. We like the uplifting, the feel-good music. But sometimes, you're like, "That is not what I need right now. That is not what I'm feeling." And we have, at least what my generation calls emo music, right? We have the more emotional music that elicits these raw emotional responses that, you know, maybe it's depression or anxiety or grief even. And these, what the Bible would call, are laments. And so we have both. In music, we have both the upbeat, energetic, feel-good songs, and we have the hard, emotional, expressive songs. And so does the Bible. There's all different kinds of songs in the Bible.
Now, last week, Pastor Andre talked about a lament. He talked about Psalms 42. And we had it originally intended to do two laments back to back. We were like, "That's kind of a downer, right? Let's not do two laments back to back." But the more we talked about it, the more we realized that our sermons, although very different, were kind of a part one and part two on the topic of lament. Now, if you weren't here last week and you didn't hear his sermon, that's okay. You're not going to be lost today because it's very different. But it's really hitting on two important key things with lament. He touched more on this idea of lamenting when things are hard, when the world comes at you, when life is just hard and the circumstances are maybe even out of our control. And today, we are going to be talking about lamenting when it's our own fault, when we are the problem. Sounds a bit like a downer. I know. Okay. But hang with me. There is good news. There is hope. Okay. We'll get there. But I think this is a really valuable and important thing for us to talk about. There is hope, even in the lamenting. And there's hope because we don't grieve like the world grieves. First Thessalonians says that we don't grieve like those with no hope. We grieve with hope. And that's really what a lament is. It is a form of grief and we grieve because of our sin. We grieve because we sin against God. We grieve because it puts a rift in our relationship with God. Maybe because we hurt others in our sin. And because the things that grieve or break the heart of God should break our hearts too. But because we know the end of the story, we know Jesus came and is coming back again, we can grieve and lament with hope. So we're going to be in Lamentations today. It's only five chapters, but it is dense. It is a lot happening in that. And we will not be covering all of Lamentations today. Don't worry. We won't be here till 4 p.m. We are going to be really focused in on chapter three.
So the Book of Lamentations is made up of five poems or songs. And it's believed to be written by one author. And we think it's Jeremiah who wrote the Book of Jeremiah. It was written as a lament regarding the destruction of Jerusalem in 587 B.C. when they were attacked and the city was destroyed and the people were taken into captivity. So the first four of the poems are actually written in an acrostic, which is a cool literary way for the author to do it. But we don't actually see that in our English Bible because it was written in Hebrew. But if you look at the Hebrew of it, the first word of every line in the first four poems or songs is their Hebrew alphabet. So if it were English, the first line would be A. The second line would start with B. The third line would start with C. And so it's a really cool fact about this song. But one commentary mentioned this about it being in an acrostic. It said that the use of the alphabet symbolizes that the completeness, the A to Z of grief is being expressed. And I love this because lament is just not one thing. It's not just stating facts or it's not just complaining or crying out to God or it's not just praising Him and asking Him for rescue. It's all of those things. It's the completeness, the wholeness, the A to Z-ness of it. It was often sung by the Israelites, usually on a yearly basis as a remembrance for the destruction of their city. And to remind themselves of the sin and the choices that got them there, as well as God's faithfulness during that time. So Lamentations kind of builds a little bit. The first couple chapters are really just about the destruction of Jerusalem. The pain, the consequences of their actions. But in chapter three, it shifts a little bit. The narrator turns more to a personal voice, talks more individually, and speaks more of God's justice and His mercy in the hope that we find even in the darkness of it. Books of the Bible, like Lamentations, are really hard to read because we see the destruction. We see the pain. We see the reality of the ramifications of our sin. It is plain as day in black and white. We see that the destruction came on Israel because of their own choices. They chose to disobey God and live in their own way. And that brought consequences. Now for us, on this side of the cross, we have to remember that Jesus already paid the price. He paid the debt. Justice has already been served. Praise God. But this is not a reason or excuse for us to keep on sinning. We know that we're forgiven, so we should live in that forgiveness, not just think, "Oh, well, I can keep on doing what I'm doing because God will forgive me." We don't have the license to keep doing that. And we have to understand that while we are forgiven and we live in freedom, we're gonna mess up. We're gonna fail. We're gonna fall. And there will be ramifications to those sins. So Lamentations is brutal and it's beautiful. It's brutal. It's a tough one, guys. But there's hope. Paul David Tripp writes, "The Bible never denies reality. The Bible never plays it safe. The Bible never offers you a cosmetized view of the fallen world. The Bible never tricks you into thinking that things are better than they are. The Bible is straightforward and honest, but not void of hope. While it is very candid about the hardships of life in this broken world, the Bible is also gloriously hopeful. The honesty does not crush the hope, but neither does the hope negate the honesty." The Bible pulls no punches and we might step on some toes today, but we're gonna see the hope too. So instead of going verse by verse through chapter three, we're actually gonna kind of jump around and we're gonna go more topically through this. And we're gonna pull out what we can learn from this lament, from this song.
So first we're gonna talk about the ramifications of our sin. So turn with me to Lamentations 3. We're gonna start in verse 13 and pull it up on your phone or your Bible. It'll be on the screens as well. So verse 13, "He pierced my heart with arrows from his quiver. I became the laughing stock of all my people. They mocked me in song all day long. He has filled me with bitter herbs and given me gall to drink. He has broken my teeth with gravel. He has trampled me in dust. I have been deprived of peace. I have forgotten what prosperity is. So I say, 'My splendor is gone and all that I had hoped from the Lord. I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I will remember them and my soul is downcast within me.'" That can be really hard to read. And it may seem obvious, it probably is, but I think it's important for us to understand that our sin has consequences. The author here lists a few, that his heart was pierced, he had no peace, there was bitterness, his soul was downcast. And those are just personal, internal consequences. That doesn't even account for external consequences. Things like broken relationship, financial hardship, a variety of things that can cause consequences outside of ourselves, physical consequences. Our sin has consequences, even if we don't think it will. And the reality is that we don't sin in a vacuum. So our sin also has consequences for other people. It affects those around us. If you flip back to chapter 2, verse 19 says, "Lift up your hands to him for the lives of your children who faint from hunger at every street corner." The kids of Jerusalem weren't the ones sinning. They weren't the ones going after other gods, but they still suffered the consequences of their parents' sin. That's hard to hear, but it's true. Because we don't sin in a vacuum, other people will experience consequences of our own sin. And I guarantee you, everyone in this room can think of a consequence they suffered because of someone else's sin. And vice versa. I bet you can think of a consequence someone else suffered because of your own. Sin has consequences and not just for ourselves. All the things that we think of in sin that maybe are the struggles we have, we think maybe are just personal. But it's not. There are far-reaching consequences. I think of extramarital affairs that they think, "Oh, it's just between me and this person." But what about your children? What about your friendships? What about your co-working relationships? I think about addictions, things like porn that it's done in secret, but it has ramifications beyond what maybe we can even fathom. Sin has consequences. Second ramification is that we become unfit for use. That's a tough one. Limitations three, we're gonna jump down to verse 44. It says, "You have covered yourself with a cloud so that no prayer can get through." He's talking to God here. "You have made a scum and refuse among the nations." When we are choosing to live in sin, our prayers become ineffective. Now, when we are crying out to God from our sin and asking God to restore us, that's different. But when we are actively choosing sinful behavior, our prayers will fall on deaf ears. They become ineffective. They can't get through because you're intentionally separating yourself from God. The Hebrew word here for the scum, he says, "You have made a scum and refuse." The Hebrew word here, it's a descriptive term that in context really denotes anything that is rejected as unfit for use. The Lord, hear me on this, the Lord can use anyone. And the reality is he wants to use people. That's how he designed it. He wants to use us as people and everyone is a sinner. So his only option is to use sinners. So he can use us. But it's our heart posture. When we are choosing to live in sin or ignore sinful behaviors, we become unfit for kingdom use. And when I say unfit for use, it's not that God can't use you, it's that you're making yourself unavailable. I said that intentionally that way. You're making yourself unavailable. It's a choice. Our sin puts a rift in the relationship. It hardens our hearts and makes us unavailable for kingdom work. It makes our prayers ineffective. So God can't use us for kingdom work.
So we must lament these things. We have to grieve them because they grieve the heart of God. And when we take the time to lament, we become aware of our sin and of God's justice. That's the next thing we're going to look at today. The reality is of God's justice. The first thing I want us to understand, though, is that God doesn't delight in punishing us, but wants to restore us back into right relationship with him. God is not some vengeful God maniacally laughing at our pain or circumstances or the consequences that we are suffering. He is a loving God who understands that the consequences of our sin can bring us back into right relationship with him if we allow them to. If we are open to that. Sometimes we go through the valley of the shadow of death. Pastor Chris talked about the Psalm 23 a couple of weeks ago, walking through the valley of the shadow of death. And Pastor Andre talked about last week walking through and lamenting when life is just hard. But sometimes we walk through the valley of the shadow of death at our own fault. Sometimes we go through that. We walk through the valley of the shadow of death because God led us there in order to bring us to repentance. Repentance is just a church word that means to turn. To turn away from your sin. Do a 180 and go the other direction. Sometimes we're too stubborn or stuck in our sin or too comfortable in our sin that we need to be led through that dark valley in order to be brought to repentance. Praise God we serve a God that goes through that with us. He doesn't leave us alone. He walks through it with us and he delivers us from it. But he doesn't delight in punishing us. He just allows justice to be served and for us to experience those consequences in order to restore us. The second thing about God's justice is that just the fact that God is a just God. And so it would be against his nature to leave sin unpunished. It would be against his nature to leave sin unpunished. This is why we see the punishment of Israel played out in these verses. God could not leave their sin unpunished. That would not be just and he cannot be anything but who he says he is. That's also why he sent Jesus. To take on our punishment for our sins that justice required. In order for God to be who he says he is justice had to be served. It had to be served by either by the person who sinned which would be us or by a perfect sacrifice which was Jesus. Thank God for his loving kindness that he chose his son to serve that sentence for us. But the penalty had to be paid in some shape or form. It had to be paid because he is a just God. And it's good news. That's good news that Jesus paid that price for us. This is hard stuff. It's heavy stuff to confront our sin, to confront our our natural human nature, to go against God. But like I said, there is hope. We're getting to the good part guys. Okay? We have the hope of God's mercy and restoration.
Read with me Lamentations 3:21-26. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope because of the Lord's great love. We are not consumed. Amen? For his compassion never fail. They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness. I say to myself, the Lord is my portion. Therefore, I will wait for him. The Lord is good to those who hope whose hope is in him. To the one who seeks him. It is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord. First thing we can draw out here that gives us hope is humility. Humility brings hope. If you back up a little bit into verse 19 going into 21 it says, I remember my affliction and my wandering, the bitterness and the gall. I will remember them and my soul is downcast within me. I am turned down. I am humbling. Yet this I call to mind and therefore I have hope. Jeremiah humbled himself in order to call to mind the things that were hopeful. We've talked about humility before and it is having a right view of ourselves and a right view of God. It is putting us in our proper places that he is God and we are not. But more than that, it positions our hearts in such a way that we can actually see the hope. When we are humble, we are not blinded by our pride. We are not blinded by our sin and we can actually see hope for the future. We are at the beach this week and I was hanging out with my mom and the kids were off in the water with Chris and my dad. We were just chatting and I took some pictures and I was looking at my phone and my mom says, "Sis, you're missing the sunset. Turn around." 37 years old and she's still telling me what to do. Okay? But she was right. I had taken some pictures and I was looking at them but the real thing was right there. The ocean wasn't different. It wasn't gone. It didn't change because I wasn't looking at it. The sunset was just as beautiful whether I was looking at it or not but I had to turn around and look at it to enjoy. And I did. And the sunset was beautiful and the light was like crystals on the water and I got to enjoy it. But I had to change my position to see the view. We have to change our hearts position to see the hope. We have to humble ourselves to see the hope. The second thing to give us hope is that God is merciful and compassionate.
Verse 22 says, "Because of the Lord's great love, we are not consumed, although we should be." Romans 6 23 says, "For the wages of sin is death." That's the cost of our sin. We should be consumed. But it goes on to say, "But the gift of God is eternal life in Jesus Christ our Lord." Because of his love, we are not consumed. One commentary said, "There was still a remnant." As in referring to the Israelites. There was a small group that was left in Jerusalem. Most were taken into captivity or killed. But there was a small remnant that was left in Jerusalem that eventually took part in rebuilding the city and rebuilding the temple. He says, "There was still a remnant and a remnant with a promise of restoration." Wherever God leaves life, he leaves hope. If we're not dead, he's not done. There is hope. So we are not consumed and his compassion never run out. Some translations say mercy, some say compassion, but they never run out. Verse 23 says, "They are new every morning. Great is your faithfulness." His mercies are new every morning because we need them to be. They don't change or expire every night at midnight. Like they don't run out. But because we are sinful and forgetful, we need his new mercies every single day. We need them to be freshly available to us. And they are. Because he is merciful, because he is compassionate. They are freshly available to us. The third thing that gives us hope is God's covenantal love compels him to redeem and restore. That's why he made a way for the Israelites to make things right through sacrifice. He gave them the law. He gave them the sacrifices that they could do in order to atone for their sin and get into right relationship with God.
It says in verse 22, "His steadfast love." This is a covenantal love. It's covenantal language because he made a covenant with his people back in the Old Testament. And because he did that, he was compelled to make a way to redeem and restore them. He did that personally through their sacrifices and atonement, but then he also did it corporately when he restored the city. But it's also why he sent Jesus to be the ultimate sacrifice for us. He brought in a new covenant. We are under a new covenant through Jesus' death and resurrection. His steadfast love, his covenantal love continues to redeem and restore to this day. That gives us hope. So we know this sin has consequences. We know that God is just and that he must serve justice in order to be who he says he is. And we know that there is hope. We see that through these verses that there is hope. So how do we move forward now? How do we walk in that freedom and walk in this truth and walk in that hope? Well, the first thing is we must reflect on our behavior, confess our sins and repent. We have to reflect and ask the Lord to search our hearts to identify where sin may be taking root. We have to be honest with ourselves about what's really going on in our hearts.
Verse 40 says, "Let us examine our ways and test them and let us return to the Lord." That's reflecting. That's confessing. That's repenting. That's turning away from our sin and back to him. We have to identify the sin and die to it in order to return to the Lord. See, sometimes sin is sneaky. We think that if we're not murdering someone or robbing a bank, we're good. We're not doing the big ones, right? We're okay. But the thing is, Satan knows that if we're trying to actively follow Christ, we're not going to do the really obvious illegal things. He's going to be more sneaky about it. Do you have anger, pride, selfishness in your heart? Do you covet what others have? Do you let your thoughts run wild instead of taking them captive and submitting them to the authority of Jesus? We have to reflect and allow the Lord to search our hearts, and then we have to confess and repent. But we can't just stay on the reflection piece, right? I heard one teacher, a preacher, talk about this. She said, "So often I would recognize the sin, the Lord would identify in my heart, and then I would learn all about it. I'd read the books and listen to the podcast and read the Bible about it, and I would know all about the sin. I would intellectualize the sin, but I wasn't putting it to death." We can intellectualize our sin. We can know all about it. We can know why it's there. We can know how to combat it. We can know all about it. But unless we are putting it at the foot of the cross and dying to it, we haven't done anything. We haven't truly repented. So reflect, confess, and repent. I fully believe that revival comes after confession and repentance. Not before. Revival in our own hearts, in our homes, in our church, in our communities. Revival won't come until we confess and repent. The second thing to move forward is remember that He is our portion.
Verse 24 says, "I say to myself, 'The Lord is my portion, therefore I will wait for Him.'" I think that the main reason we sin is to fill something in our lives. Either something we think we need that we're lacking or something we think we deserve. But when we operate from the truth that the Lord is our portion, that He fills us with what we need, then we won't have to go looking for those other things to fill that need. Those sinful behaviors, even the good things, the friendships, the relationships, the stuff. Those aren't necessarily sinful, but if we idolize them or we turn to them without turning to God, then they become a problem. He is our portion. He is enough. He is so good. He is our portion. And lastly, we must put our hope in Him and seek Him. Verse 25 and 26 says, "The Lord is good to those whose hope is in Him, to the one who seeks Him. It is good to wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord." We have to keep our eyes on Him. The Israelites took their eyes off Yahweh. They put them on the culture around them. They turned to the lesser man-made gods. They turned to the sinful practices of the nations around them. They didn't live in the law of the land that God had given them. They chose their own way. Scripture says over and over again that they were wise in their own eyes instead of keeping their eyes on God. So we put our hope in the Lord. We keep our eyes on Him. We lament the things that break God's heart. And then we move forward in the redemption and the freedom that we can only find in Him. Amen.
Let's pray. Jesus, thank you. Thank you for your covenantal love that compels you to redeem and restore. Thank you for your gift of salvation, for the hope of a future that we have with you. God, open our eyes to the reality of our sin. Convict our hearts and help us to move forward in repentance. God, we pray for revival in our hearts, in our homes, in our church, in our communities. But God, we have to go first in confessing and repenting of the things that go against you and your word, that break your heart, break those in us, Father. We thank you for your goodness, that your compassion and your mercies never run out or expire. They are new and freshly available to us every day. Help us live in those graces. Father, we love you. In Jesus' name we pray. Amen.