God’s Way - First Things First: Part 4 - A Cautionary Tale
Genesis 4:2–16; Matthew 23:23; Romans 12:2; Malachi 3:10–12
SERMON TRANSCRIPT
Well, good morning, everybody. If I haven't had a chance to meet you, my name is Pastor Chris, part of the team here, and I have the privilege of leading this church. It's an honor to be able to worship with you this morning and to wrap up our series we've been in now for the last four weeks: "God's Way, First Things First." And if you've been in church for a while, maybe this is the first time in a while, or maybe you're here checking it out for different reasons—yes, we are talking about money today. It has been a journey that we've been on for the last four weeks, just digging into Scripture and asking, "God, what do you have to say about money? What does it matter to us? Why do you care about it? And why is it a thing?"
We started off week one, and I said this, and I'll say it again. I think I've said it every single week that in our lives, there are dark areas. There are places where the light of God has yet to shine. Until we allow God's Word to penetrate those places and shine His perfect light in them, we will continue to be in bondage. A part of this is talking about a larger conversation about discipleship. We've said it before that our vision and mission here is to see our community saturated with the glory of God through making disciples in the everyday stuff of life. I don't know about you, but for me, the everyday stuff of my life probably includes finances. God has called us to live in a certain way as financial stewards of what He has blessed us with.
In the beginning of humanity, we read in Genesis that a lie was told to Adam and Eve by Satan in the garden. This is the same lie that we believe today. The lie is this: that God is holding out on you. That God does not give you enough. God will not give you enough. And so, in turn, we have to take control. We have to make sure that everything is taken care of, and we have to be the ones making all the calls and decisions in our lives. It's the same lie that was told to Adam and Eve in the garden with the tree of the knowledge of good and evil. Whether you want to admit it or not, at some level, we all still believe this lie. For the last four weeks, we've been deconstructing that and breaking it down, trying to see where this lie begins. We talked about Abraham and Isaac and how God wants to pour out His blessings on us, but it involves trust. We've talked about so many other ways in life of what Jesus has said about money. If you haven't been around, I encourage you to please go listen to those on our website or podcast. There's really good stuff in there that helps us begin to understand that God is not holding out on us, and that God truly wants to bless us, but it is an act of trust.
Last week, we talked about firstfruits. We talked about the fact that God is actually the one who first gave to us. He gave His first and His best, and His one and only Son, Jesus Christ, on the cross for us. So the act of generosity isn't one where God's just up there, the big man upstairs in heaven looking down going, "You mess up, I'm gonna zap you." Rather, He is the one who actually gave first and says, "This is what generosity looks like. This is the way I want you to live." There's a system, a process to all of our lives, and that isn't just how we treat our relationships or our marriages, or how we raise our kids, or what we do with our lives, or the words that come out of our mouths, but it also includes how we spend our money.
Today, I want to talk through a couple of cautionary tales that we see in Scripture. Does anybody know what a cautionary tale is? Hint: the word is in the title. It's a tale of caution. It's okay, you'll get there this morning. Drink some more coffee. But a word of caution, a cautionary tale—what does it do? A cautionary tale has two purposes. The first is to tell us, "Hey, don't do the thing that I'm cautioning you against. Don't do it." And the second is, "If you ignore the teaching I'm giving you, if you ignore the caution, this is what is going to happen. This is going to be the outcome." The outcome, most likely in cautionary tales, is going to be negative. I won't tell you later, "I told you so," because I'm telling you so right now. Cautionary tales equip us to be better decision-makers, revealing clear cause-and-effect truth in our lives.
We're going to talk about a set of brothers who were second-generation humans on this earth: Cain and Abel. They are actually the sons of Adam and Eve. What's interesting here is that we come to this point in Genesis when Adam and Eve had sinned, and they actually got kicked out of the garden because of their sin. They're trying to figure out life, and then they have two sons, Cain and Abel, and they're just trying to figure out this world. But what we do know is that in Scripture, God is still clearly having a relationship with them. Sometimes I think we get caught up in thinking, "Oh, they were in the garden with God, and they got kicked out, so then God doesn't talk to them anymore." But that's actually the opposite effect. God is a very relational God in their lives. He's talking to them. He's telling them how to live. He's giving them direction and instruction on their lives on a regular basis. We see this all the way through Scripture up to the flood. Because the reality was, Noah didn't just wake up one morning and go, "Hey, I wanna build a boat. I don't even know what a boat is. I've never seen a boat. I don't even know that I knew the word boat, but I'm gonna build one." No, God gives very deep instructions. You could read in the Bible down to inches and feet. God gives him a clear blueprint of what to build when He says, "I want you to build a giant boat called an ark." So God is still speaking with His people on a very regular basis, giving them directions for how to worship, how to live their lives, how to conduct themselves, and how to live in relationship with other human beings on this planet.
So we come to Genesis chapter four, where we're going to spend most of our time today. It says, "When they grew up, Abel became a shepherd while Cain cultivated the ground." Now, first off, these are both great professions. These are both good. God loves both of these. These are both very necessary to sustaining life. One is not better than the other, okay? I wanna get that off the front here. "When it was time for the harvest, Cain presented some of his crops as a gift to the Lord. Abel also brought a gift, the best portions of the firstborn lambs of his flock." Last week, we talked about firstfruits. We talked about why God wants the first things. Why does God want the first? Because the first is the best. Do you know who gets the best pineapples? The first crop. Hawaiians. It never leaves the island. I hear they're magical. I hope one day to taste one. It pales in comparison, I guess, to what we have here in the States. But think of olive oil. The first press of the olives is what? Extra virgin olive oil. It's the best. And then every press after that, it kind of goes down in grade. God wants the best for us, and He gave us the best in His Son, Jesus, and He asks for the best of us as well. The first is the best.
Continue on. "The Lord accepted Abel and his gift, but He did not accept Cain and his gift." What a jerk God is, right? Or wait, hold on. There's probably more there. Unless maybe God had, at some point, given instruction to all of humanity about what He wanted in the gift of the harvest. Hmm. God's standard was already clearly communicated. And yet, Cain kind of went rogue. And this was not good. Continue on. "This made Cain very angry. He looked dejected." Here is where the cautionary tale begins. The caution here is that we are to give God what He asks. Plain and simple. And the caution is that giving whatever you want instead causes issues. Growing up as a kid, we had a dog, and one of my weekly chores was to get my butt out into the backyard and pick up all the little and large deposits our dog had made in the grass, the flower beds, and sometimes the brick patio and all over the place, right? And I remember there was one time where my dad was like, "Hey, garbage night, get out there, go pick up the dog poop." And I'm like, "Dad, I don't want to. I've already done my laundry, I unloaded the dishwasher, and I cleaned my room." And my dad went, "Fantastic, that's great. Now you have time to go out and do what I've asked of you." Because doing the laundry, picking up my room, unloading the dishwasher, was not the directive that my father had given me. He said, "Get your butt outside and pick up the dog poop." Now, don't use your hands if you're picking up dog poop. Use like a little pooper scooper. But the principle here is the same. God says, "I want you to give in this way. This is my expectation of you." And yet Cain goes off and does what he wants. And I think he comes with a little bit of an attitude and says, "Hey, God. Like, yeah, here's some of my crop. It's what it is. You're welcome." Cain's got this little bit of an attitude thing going on. And God is like, "Hold up." Cain is choosing independence over obedience to God.
I think maybe this question is close to where we are in our lives: where have we given God something else than what He asked for, the first and the best? And so God, in His graciousness, has a very direct conversation with Cain. He says this: "Why are you so angry?" the Lord asked Cain. "Why do you look dejected? You will be accepted if you do what is right." A caveat here: There are times in our life, I've experienced it, and I think many of you have, where God presents two really good options. You could go this way or you could go this way. And in His love and His grace and His care, He says, "You choose. I love you. I'm gonna bless whatever route you wanna go on. You choose." He's great like that. This is not one of those situations. This is not a moment where God says, "Okay, Cain, well, I want this, but you choose, bud." No, He's saying, "You need to choose what I've asked you to choose." And Cain let his brokenness and selfishness make the decision and not be obedient. I think some of us have done that. Cain is not choosing the direct, clearly previously stated obedience. God's saying, "Hey, Cain, bro, what's going on, dude? I told you what's up. You're not doing it. We need to have a conversation." This is Chris's translation, if you didn't know. That's not a biblical quote right there. But hey, Cain, dude, we gotta talk. So He says, "Why do you look so dejected? You will be accepted if you do what is right, but you refuse to do what is right. Then watch out. Sin is crouching at the door, eager to control you, but you must subdue it and be its master."
I could wrap up today right here and go home. That is such a good bunch of theology right here in this passage. And I think for so many of us, we could take this and immediately apply it like right now, right? But this is a cautionary tale. It's saying, "Hey, Cain, if you keep walking down this path, bro, it's not gonna end well for you. It's not gonna end up in a place where I think you want to be. So you gotta watch out. That sin is crouching. Do what is right. Master it." And what I love here is that God's patience is so huge in this moment. God had already given him direction and he already disobeyed. Like how great is it that God is like, "Hey bud, let's talk about this." I mean, He could have been like, "Zap, you're done, next." Seriously, this isn't a mystery to Cain. Cain's like, "What am I supposed to do?" God's like, "No, this is how you're supposed to do it. Hey, Cain, you're not doing it. We need to talk about this." Because God is like, "Hey, I have a calling. I have a path. I have a way of life for you. And that way is filled with peace. Cain, I made you. I love you. I care so much for you. I have a calling for you. And if you do it my way, 100% of the time, it is going to turn out great. But you got to do it my way." But how many of us are like Cain? I'll admit it. I'll be the first. I want to do it my way the first time. "Me do," as my three-year-old says in our house. "Me do." I'm like, "Baby, you don't know how to mow the lawn. And you're out here going, 'Me do, me do' with the mower. I'm like, no, this is not gonna end well."
Because if you see this outcome that God is saying don't do, there's already anger and dejection from Cain. We're gonna see in a moment, there's violence, there's loss, there's wandering, there's blame. Like Cain's path just compounds into just bad. Have you ever worked with someone who you have to follow to clean up their messes afterwards? Have you? People are saying names. Don't say names. Some of you are like, "I can think of four people right now." Like so much work. You have to follow this person and fix the mess that they are making. It's exhausting. It costs time. It costs resources. It costs money, your energy, your sanity. But God is saying here, do it my way, the right way, the first time, and there won't be anything extra fixing needed. It's easier to keep relationships healthy than it is to repair a broken one, right? It costs time. It costs energy. It costs sometimes counseling to mend broken relationships, and we could have just done it right the first time. God here in His grace is trying to warn Cain, but he's choosing his own path. Verse eight: "One day Cain suggested to his brother, 'Hey bro, let's go out into the fields.' And while they were out in the field, Cain attacked his brother Abel and killed him." Welcome to church. Maybe you've heard this story before, maybe you haven't, but God literally just told him, "Bro, you go down this path, it's not going to end well." But Cain chooses anger and dejection and then takes it out on his own flesh and blood, his own brother. Guys, there's like, I think, at this point in time, four or maybe five people on planet Earth, and 20% just got killed.
And I think sometimes we can look at this story with Cain and be like, "Man, that's horrible. I'd never do that." But I'll admit, I've had bad days and come home and I wasn't the nicest to my kids. I wasn't the most loving and caring husband that I should have been. And I have to go back. I have to ask forgiveness. I say, "I'm so sorry. I had a horrible day at work. This happened, this happened, this happened. And I just took it out on you guys." And maybe you've done that to people in your family or people that you care about. Or maybe it was done to you. I don't know all of your stories, but I know some, and I know some of you didn't grow up in the best houses with the most loving and caring parents. And dad might come home after a hard day. Or mom. Or maybe a sibling to sibling, like we read in the Bible. Maybe it was a teacher. Maybe it was a coach. Maybe, unfortunately, it happens. Maybe it was a pastor at some point in your life. And I'm so sorry for that. And Cain is continuing to choose to do it his own way rather than choosing to do it God's way. Verse nine: "Afterward, the Lord asked Cain, 'Hey, where's your brother? Where's Abel?' Well, I don't know," Cain responded. "Am I my brother's guardian?" But the Lord said, "What have you done? Listen, your brother's blood cries out to me from the ground. Now you are cursed and banished from the ground, which has swallowed your brother's blood. You will no longer will the ground yield good crops for you, no matter how hard you work. From now on, you will be a homeless wanderer on the earth."
There are always results to our actions. Always. There are always results to our actions. Is it God's fault what happened to Cain? No. God warned Cain. He said, "Dude, don't keep going down that path. There's gonna be outcomes. There's gonna be results that you cannot even fathom that you do not want." The fallout wasn't God's cruelty. It was a consequence. Consequence, I think sometimes we hear that word, we think only just bad stuff, right? Just consequences. But here's the definition of consequence: A consequence is the result, outcome, or effect of a prior action, decision, or situation. Consequences can be good. Consequences can be bad. And for Cain, it was a bad consequence. It was a curse. God was trying to present him with good consequences if he chose His way and His path, but Cain decided to do something else. Cain decided to make him and his identity, his outcomes, his crop, his income, his God. Instead of submitting to Yahweh, God Almighty, in saying, "You know what, God? You are right. You are God. I am not. I am submitting to you." And yet I think we do the same at times, right? We make things in our life our gods. Now, are they little carved wooden or metal figures or different things? No, idols throughout culture have looked like all sorts of different things. We talked about the rich young man a couple weeks ago that he had made money his God, and he comes to Jesus and says, "Hey, how do I get into heaven?" God says, "Well, love the Lord your God with all your heart, your soul, your mind, your strength, love your neighbor as yourself, honor your mother and father." And he's like, "I've done all those things." And Jesus is like, "Awesome, bro, that's great. But you need to sell your wealth and give it away because that's your God." And he walked away dejected, just like Cain, because he didn't want to surrender what had become his everything, his whole world, the center of his life.
The reality is that God is the one who brings the provision. It's nothing that we do. Cain gave such value to his crop, it became his idol. And I find it interesting that this is a similar curse that his parents had felt and walked through. Because in the garden, it was this perfect, immaculate place where they had to work for nothing. God created an environment that things just grew. Food was available. It was there. They didn't have to water. They didn't have to fertilize. They didn't have to weed. They didn't have to plant. They didn't have to grow. Man, that sounds like a great place. My garden gives you some of that. But then Adam and Eve, they get kicked out. And now part of their curse, because of their sin, they have to work the ground. But God still allows things to grow. And now Cain gets removed a degree further from that, that it says that the ground will not produce for him. His idol he once had is now completely gone. And a curse is put on him because he broke the relationship with God. Even after God said, "Hey, here's how to live your life. Hey, here's a warning, you're not going right. Hey, buddy, get back in line, it's not going good." Boom, murder. And for some, that kind of sounds extreme. I don't think anybody in this room has ever killed anybody before. But all of us have sin in our lives. And all of us at time, from time to time, choose our way, our selfish, our own way, our own path. And then Cain kind of has a little bit of a four-year-old temper tantrum. Cain replies to the Lord, "My punishment is too great for me to bear." I find it interesting sometimes that when we get caught in something that we know we did wrong, we have justified our actions so far gone that we can't even understand what fair is. We're at such a far, sinful, broken place that we can't even see clearly because we're so burning with selfishness inside of us. Cain's acting like a little child right here. Then Cain goes on to say some things that God did not say. He says this: "You have banished me from the land and from your presence." Did God ever say Cain was banished? No. But Cain knew his consequences. He knew what it meant for his punishment that was coming because he had chosen himself over God rather than allowing God to come in and to be the choice that he selected. It was Cain's choice, not God's.
Continues on: "You have made me a homeless wanderer." Cain, I tried to tell you, man, I really did. "But that warning I gave you about those things tempting you, they became your master rather than you mastering those temptations. These are the results." He says, "Anyone who finds me will kill me," Cain said. "Nope," the Lord replied. "For I will give a sevenfold punishment to anyone who kills you. Then the Lord put a mark on Cain to warn anyone who might try to kill him. So Cain left the Lord's presence and settled in the land of Nod, east of Eden." We don't know what this mark was. We have no idea what it is. There's some bad theology in church that gets thrown around that some people say this is where darker-skinned people came from. And that's a lie. That's not true. It's a lie from the church to manipulate, to control, to degrade people that are created. All people are created in God's image. And so if you've been told that lie or you've heard that lie, like put that away. That is not from God, okay? We don't know what this mark was. We have no idea. But all we know is that whatever it was, it was clear as day: "Hey, do not touch that, bro. He messed up with God. You don't wanna get pulled into that garbage. Stay away." This is the cautionary tale from the Old Testament. Now I wanna talk about a cautionary tale from the New Testament. These are words of Jesus in Matthew 23:23. Jesus says this: "What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens, but you ignore the more important aspects of the law, which are justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things."
What is Jesus saying here? Jesus is saying, yes, you should tithe. That's what you should do. But see, if Cain was over here going, "Whatever, God, you take this," the Pharisees over here were so high and mighty, they're like, "I'm gonna even tithe my herb garden. Here's 10% of my basil, 10% of my rosemary, 10% of whatever." Okay, side note: please don't bring me your garden tithes to the church, okay? I have my own garden I'm struggling with, okay? I don't need your garden too. But Jesus here is saying, "You're doing it your own way." Huh. Is there a story from the Old Testament of someone who was trying to be tithing and giving and worship in their own way? Oh yeah, we just talked about Cain. And here's the opposite of the Pharisees saying, "We are following every aspect of the law. We are so high and mighty." And Jesus is like, "Okay, cool. But what about justice and mercy and my grace and my love and my faith and my hope? Like, what about that?" Jesus here isn't saying not to tithe. He's actually affirming the Old Testament principle of tithing. And He's actually kicking it up a notch and saying, "Hey, there's more to it than that. Tithing is the foundation, not the ceiling. Like there's more to it." And we've talked about that. We talked about in the Word, we said the term extravagant generosity is what God desires of our hearts and our lives. "Well, pastor, you know I'm tithing. And so like, God, He doesn't care about these little sins in my life. I'm doing the big one. I'm doing the 10%." Wait, sorry, excuse me. What? We don't get to just pick and choose what's kind of nice for us, or what's okay in our eyes, because we selfishly say, "I'll do it." Do we? We see the world through our own eyes, right? We see the world through our perspective, and when we think we see what is good and pleasing and all that, we say, "Perfect. I'll just do that. That's exactly." No, no, no, no. God wants all of you. And that includes your finances. The Pharisees were giving themselves permission to ignore God's heart of justice, mercy, and faith. "We're going to do it how we want to do it, Jesus. We got this law thing figured out. Don't worry about us. You need to go look at those sinners over there." And Jesus is like, "Are you just pointing at yourself? Because I'm here talking to a sinner right now."
But it's hard, right? It's hard. And it's uncomfortable sometimes to walk through these things. And I've learned in my life, I know that there's times where I have to say, "Hey, search me, God. I'm blind in areas. I need you to open up my eyes. I need your perspective. I need to change who I am. I need you to put your new spirit in me so I can see my blind spots in my life." And God will come in and He'll work in your life and He'll soften your heart and He will give you new desires for His will and His way. Because the reality is, this is a discipline of discernment. We're out here having to filter through what is God's will and what is my will? "Well, God put that thought into my head, so that must be God's will." No. I've heard Christians come and say, "Well, God wants me to get a divorce." Nope. I think you're leaning a little bit too much on your will and not looking into and trying to discern God's will. But it's difficult. Discernment isn't guessing, guys. Okay, isn't just like poking in the dark going, "Okay, maybe here, maybe there." Discernment is a transformation process. It requires humility and Scripture and Christian community. That's why we gather here. It takes a commitment, a daily commitment to waking up saying, "Jesus, I am yours today. What do you will for my life?" Scripture calls this a renewing of our mind. Romans 12:2: "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way that you think. Then you will learn, you will know God's will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect." Cain and the Pharisees chose a way that was sinful, selfish, and full of hatred. But God's desire for our hearts is good, pleasing, and perfect. And it requires an obedience shift to begin to walk in God's way. We have to change our mind. Our mind has to be renewed into who Jesus wants us to be. It's a practice of obedience. Obedience. God's law is not a cage to control us. God's law is a compass for us to navigate this world. And we have to step into obedience with His guardrails for our lives.
So what does this look like when it specifically comes to finances? Well, it looks like this. If you have given nothing to the church, you've given nothing back to God. We talked about the storehouses last week. If you have given nothing to God, I wholeheartedly believe that He has a heart of generosity He has put within you when you've accepted Jesus Christ into your life through the power of the Holy Spirit, and has a calling for our lives to be generous. Maybe you've started giving, and that's awesome, but maybe it's inconsistent. It's kind of here and there. It's your choice. Maybe kind of like Cain's choice. He gave what he wanted to give. Maybe you haven't stepped into full obedience to Him because you're just going, "I'm just gonna give this right now, God." But God is saying, "Step in obedience. I want you to trust me. And I am going to give you my first and my best in Jesus. And I ask of you to do the same to me." Maybe you've stepped into practicing consistent obedience with a tithe or a percentage when it comes to your finances. A tithe is 10% of your total income back to God. It's what He asks of us in Scripture. And so if you're in that place, praise God. That's amazing. You've worked to get to that place. It takes time. It is hard. It is not easy. But maybe God is asking you to step out into more generosity beside that. To order your finances in your life, to live in a way that says, "I need less because I want to be God's light in this world. I want to give out of His immense generosity that He's blessed me with." This happened recently with Lauren and I. It was really interesting. God put on my heart for about a week, and I wrestled with it, that I needed to be generous to someone in our lives and to give them a few hundred dollars. And I wrestled and I wrestled and I wrestled. I went back and forth. I go, "Well, what about just 100, God? Can we just do 100?" God's like, "That's obedience. I want the two. I want the full amount. I want all of it. Because I want your trust. I want your obedience." I'm like, "God, I'm tithing right now. This money's really tight. I got bills coming up." God's like, "No, you need to be obedient." And so I wrestled and I wrestled and I said, "Okay, fine, God. You're right." And I've been preaching this series. This was like week one. And I was talking about how God has everything to give to us and provide and pour out of storehouses. And I'm like, "Okay." So we gave it. About a month later, just a few weeks ago, I got all that money back when someone blessed our family. And God goes, "Do you trust me? Do you trust me enough that I have enough that I wanna just blow your mind? But you gotta trust. You gotta step out. You gotta walk in generosity."
So wherever you are in this process, I'm not asking you to do what you want. I'm asking you to have a conversation with God. Talk with Him, search His Scriptures, and ask, "God, what do you desire for me? How do you want me to be obedient when it comes to this financial discipleship and this obedience?" And then I want you to step into that and to trust God. Malachi chapter three says, "Bring all the tithes in the storehouse so there will be enough food in my temple. If you do, says the Lord of heaven's armies, I will open the windows of heaven for you. I will pour out a blessing so great you won't have enough room to take it in. Try it. Put me to the test. Your crops will be abundant for I will guard them from insects and disease. Your grapes will not fall from the vine before they are ripe, says the Lord of heaven's armies. Then all the nations will call you blessed for your land will be such a delight, says the Lord of heaven's armies." I want that second final part to be true for each and every one of our lives. I'm gonna ask the ushers to pass out a card this morning to you. And I want you to take a look at this and begin to pray about what God wants you to do. Because the reality is that we cannot have the latter without the former. We don't get to have God's poured out heavenly blessing in our lives in the way that He asked us to without the obedience. And I want you to not give yourself the excuse or a pass or permission and say, "Ah, God, yeah, I know this just doesn't apply to me." I want you to push back against the lie of Satan in the garden. Maybe you're just gonna look at this card. Maybe you're just gonna take it and you're gonna take it home and you're gonna pray about it. Maybe you'll throw it away on the way out. I don't know. But what I want you to do is I want you to have a conversation with God and to say, "God, where do you want me to step up? Where do you want me to begin to trust you to push back against that lie in the garden that you are not gonna provide if I say yes to one of these things?" God's Scripture is very clear there in Malachi. Test me. It's the only place in Scripture where God says, "Put me to the test. See what happens. See that I will not just give you everything that you dream or imagine or hope to have in life."
Now is it always going to be financial? No. Lauren reminded me of a story of the church that we were in previously, of there was a challenge that we did in the church. And there was a couple who had been trying to get pregnant for a really long time. And they signed up and felt like God was asking them to step into this 90-day challenge or three months. And they did, and they started tithing faithfully. And then soon after that, they got pregnant. The blessing may not come in the ways that it might not be financial. It's not going to be always my story where God asked me to give, and then He just returned it back to me. That might not be it. But what God is asking us is to step up into this and to trust in Him. So the first part of the card says, "I have no income and I need some help." God is not asking you to tithe out of finances that you are not bringing in. But maybe if you are bringing in finances, maybe that is retirement. Maybe that's investments. Maybe that's through different benefits. Maybe that's through, I don't know, a side hustle. Maybe that's through your full-time job. Whatever that looks like for you, if you don't have any of that, mark that first block because we wanna be praying with you to say, "We wanna come alongside of you. Maybe we can help try to figure out how to get you a job. We know different people. We're gonna put feelers out. But we wanna be praying with you because I don't believe that God doesn't want you to live in a space of not having income." Maybe you're the first box after that that says, "I am stepping up and giving for the first time in the amount of blank." You fill in the blank. Maybe this is for you to step up for the very first time and God, I've been listening to you for these four weeks, I don't know how it's all going to work out but I feel like I'm supposed to do this, and that's that first step into obedience into God. Maybe you've been talking and praying about you're the third box as I am stepping up and accepting the 90-day challenge to give regular in the amount of blank every how often. I want you to kind of put some rubber to the road here of how often, whether that's whenever you get paid. We talked about that firstfruits of when we get paid. So maybe you get paid weekly. Maybe it's twice a month. Maybe it's once a month. Maybe it's quarterly. I don't know how your income works. We all have kind of different. But whatever that looks like, you are saying, "I'm going to put God to the test. I'm going to step up and I'm going to give this amount every this time." Maybe you're the third box and saying, "You know what? I've been giving. It's been here or there, but it's only like maybe 20, 50 bucks a week, or maybe it's 100 bucks a month. That's just kind of where you are. But God says, that's great, and I love you in that, but I have a calling for you to step up into a tithe, and a tithe is the 10%." Maybe that's you. You're going to check that box, say, "I am stepping up and accepting the 90-day tithe, 10% challenge, to give in obedience to God's instruction in the amount of blank, every blank." You fill in the timeline. Maybe you are the fourth group or the final group and you're like, "I am already a biblical tither. Praise God, that is amazing. And I am committing towards extravagant generosity. I am giving and stepping up and wanting to give extravagantly in the amount of fill in the blank." And then yes, we want your contact info because we want to be praying alongside of you for these next 90 days. We wanna be walking with you, want to be encouraging you. We want to be helping you. You might need to get some financial resources in your life like Pastor Andre talked about to get finances in order. You might have to reevaluate your entire budget of where you spend your money and realize, "Man, I'm going to Starbucks seven times a week. It's probably not the best. Or I'm eating out all the time. I'm DoorDashing. I'm Ubering food to my house because I just didn't wanna go buy groceries and cook something." You might have to reorder some things in your life to begin to have a place of space and margin for generosity with God. And so I want you to ask, "God, where are you calling me? Not where am I comfortable, but God, where are you leading me to trust and have faith in you."
And so we're gonna have a moment here. The worship team's gonna come up. And we typically don't do stuff like this, but I wrestled with God again this week. He keeps doing this to me. And I was like, "Okay, God, I'm gonna have him fill out the card and then I'm just gonna like, just leave it on the seats. Just leave it on the seat, just let them walk out, go on with their lives and do that." But God's like, "No, I want them to step forward in obedience." And I'm like, "God, this isn't who our church is. Like people don't come forward for prayer, let alone a commitment to give money to the church. Like, God, that's not going to happen." He says, "You need to trust me. You need to trust me in what's going to happen next." And so I have no idea what's gonna happen, but this is what God's asked me to do. So I'm being obedient. So I wanna put out a bucket here. And I want whatever God is pulling on your heart right now to come forward and to do. There may be nobody that comes up, but God's calling me to be obedient in this moment. So I'm being obedient to Him. My obedience isn't contingent on your response. And maybe two people come up, maybe one person, I don't know. But maybe the reality is you need to go home and you gotta talk with your spouse. You haven't had the conversation I've told you to have for the last three weeks. You've been ignoring it. You've been skirting it. You've been, "Oh, we're too busy." And so you can't actually come and put a card in right now. We will continue to have this going forward. We will provide cards next week. So if you go home and then you forget it on the way back to church, we'll have more cards next week. But I want you to come in obedience. God asks us to come and bring our worship to Him. I think we get caught up and think worship is just music, this, the band, right? No, no, no. Worship is actually our entire lives that we're called to give. And every act of obedience is worship. And so we're going to sing this final song. We're going to worship God. And I want you to continue to pray about this card. And I want you to come in obedience to trust to Him. Only if He is asking and calling you to step forward, okay? Don't come grumpy. Don't come angry. Don't come mad at God. "Fine, whatever, dude, here." Don't want that. He doesn't want that. Only come if He's actually truly leading you in obedience in this to say, "This is what I'm asking you to do." Eyes are gonna be on you. It's gonna be awkward. Let's just call it what it is, okay? "Well, I wonder what they're gonna give." Nobody gives a crap because everybody's sitting in that chair and they're wrestling with God themselves right now too, okay?
Jesus, we thank you for who you are, God. You're amazing, you're incredible, you're generous, you're gracious. You gave first, Jesus. And so God, you are asking us to step in obedience with you. So Lord, as we sing this song, I pray for our people. Lord, I pray over their hearts right now as they sit and they wrestle. And you're gonna call some, maybe, God, hopefully, into obedience to step forward. But maybe some aren't gonna step into the obedience this week, but that's okay. You have grace for them. You love them. You hear them. You see them. You know where you are. And so you see into their hearts and you're gonna continue to stir and you're gonna continue to work and you're gonna continue to draw and you're gonna continue to pull them closer to you in every aspect of their lives. And this includes finances at this moment. And so Jesus, in the song that we sing, God, we trust you. We worship you. We thank you. God, I pray for those who are checking that first box, say, "I don't have a job. I got nothing. I am so lost right now." God, I pray a prayer of provision and blessing over them in ways that they cannot dream or imagine right now what you're gonna do in their life and how you're gonna rock their world and say, "Here I am." So Jesus, we trust you this morning. We praise you. We worship you.

